Let me just start by saying Sabrina Alexis and Eric Charles have been a part of my life for some time. I’ve been following their amazing blog anewmode.com circa 5 years and they cover a wide array of issues and topics on two things women can never seem to talk about enough, Fashion and Relationships. Laser focusing on the relationship front, the blog is chuck full of articles on topics that we women often feel the need to congregate and start make-shift think tanks to decipher certain circumstances and behaviors. I personally appreciate their style of writing because it does not have a condescending tone like some authors on dating tend to have. When you’re caught admits a situation, it isn’t easy to see things as clearly as someone that is observing from the sidelines. Eric and Sabrina get that. I appreciate that tremendously.
Anewmode gives off a conversation over brunch with a close friend vibe that I believe made it not only unique, but extremely popular; writing a book (or two..) was only a matter of time. I’m so glad they did. The first book, “He’s Not That Complicated” was a total slam dunk! This is what I had to say about that….
Fast forward four years to Sabina and Eric to book #2, “10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men.”
Sabrina and Eric delivered another a well written book with so much insight on things we overlook or misinterpret in relationships. This book differs from the previous one because “He’s Not That Complicated” focuses on situations and circumstantial behaviors. “10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men” focuses on emotional and psychological aspects that help or hinder the ability to make and maintain a real connection.
They are candid with their own personal experiences and lessons while providing a wealth of information and challenges for the reader with exercises to help the reader see and experience what they are conveying for themselves. All in all the book is insightful, encouraging, challenging and empowering. It’s definitely one of those books you’ll keep as you may need to go back and reference a few things from time to time. It can easily be a book you’ll end up purchasing over and over again should you lend it to a friend.
I cannot buy it for you… but I can highly recommend it to you.
“10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men” is available in digital and paperback at Amazon.com
Also, I encourage you to pick up “He’s Not That Complicated.” It will at the very least equip you with great useful advise to give your girlfriends who are single and ready to mingle. And by all means check out Anewmode.com for fashion, dating, and relationship tips that will change your life!
No one says you have to be the same person you were yesterday. No one says you have to be the same person you were just five minutes ago. Changing is a choice. The choices you make can shift your paradigm and although you remain in the same environment among the same people, you can be a different person and therefore have an entirely different experience than before.
If you choose to be happy, you will notice the distinction in how you deal with unhappy people. Moreover, they will notice it too.
“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” – Paulo Coelho
If you choose to live your life looking through the windshield rather than the rear view mirror, you will notice new opportunities and encounter new people that will yield new experiences.
You have to be the catalyst of the change. It must start inside. It must start with you.
Like ripples in water a single simple choice undulates and echoes throughout the universe. Not only does a simple choice affect you, but those around you in inconceivable ways. If you choose to say hello to someone versus just walking past them can possibly make or break their day setting off a social butterfly effect.
The most difficult part of the process is simply making the choice.
“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
Every woman comes out the womb screaming she has “nothing to wear.” To quote the great philosopher Usher Raymond, these “situations will arise in our lives but, you’ve got to be smart about it!”
The little black dress
36 Chic Little Black Dress Outfits – Style Estate –
It always makes a big statement. It does not matter if it has been in heavy rotation for years like your favorite song on your iPod playlist. Add some accessories to the deal or a pair of textured or bright colored shoes and “Voila!” a whole new look.
The Classic White Shirt
Paired with your most flattering jeans, this combo is the little outfit that could – and will – hit the mark every single time. Play up your hair and face. Be sure to add a Boss Lady handbag or clutch and no one can tell you squat; unless of course, you actually do at the gym in which case is a total score!.. “Goal!”
The pencil skirt
Adding a blouse or tank top makes a nice and easy ensemble to pull off that can coincidentally look like you’ve pulled out all the stops. You can throw in a belt over it to seal the deal. Whether you throw on a leather jacket, cropped denim jacket, or a bolero jacket/sweater … you’re good to go.
The blazer can be worked into a casual outfit to transform a day look into night. If you’re in a t shirt and jeans, add a blazer and some heels to complete a fun and stylish look. It works every time!